I MARRIED A WEALTHY MAN AND I IMMEDIATELY STOPPED MY PERIODS
12 years ago I went to Pretoria in pursuit of a degree but thinks quickly to the opposite direction. I mixed myself with the wrong crowd and ended up abandoning my studies.
There was a club in Pretoria called E….a and we traveled all the way from Soshanguve TUT RES to groove at that place.
It was hip and happening on Thursdays until Sunday. There were beer and cider specials running at a very low price. You’d get a special of R5 a cider for about an hour or so.
I would tell you about all their specials and schedules but I’d never be able to tell you about a single module which was the reason I ended up in Pretoria in the first place.
I was just a young Zulu girl from the villages and I got absorbed by the city life. Monday I would be at res nursing babalas and Tuesday to Wednesday I’d be at res forcing presence. Thursday to Sunday I would be at sunnyside living my best life. My friends and I quickly became regulars there and life was just amazing.
Before I knew it I had a Nigerian boyfriend. We met at the club and he filled up our table with expensive drinks. We used to go for the specials and their good music but he introduced us to a certain type of groove there.
He would buy us expensive drinks like your champagne and also order platters for us. They made the best platters and that life quickly consumed us.
Before I knew it I had moved into his flat in sunny side and I slowly became a house wife while my parents thought I was a student.
I remember how he used to give me so much money that I would end up sending some of it to my parents. In high school we used to get monetary rewards for performing well so I lied to them and told them that the same thing is happening in university.
They were so happy because I was their only hope for changing our home situation. My Nigerian boyfriend used to give me so much money that I even sent my parents enough for them to start building.
We were able to build a 9 room house and they have never been so proud of me. But I noticed certain things happening to me that I couldn’t explain.
My then boyfriend convinced me to sign up for marriage with him at home affairs because the police were harassing him in SA. I won’t lie I truly loved him and loved how his presence in my life changed my entire being financially.
He had a very nicely furnished flat but he was hardly ever there. The flat was a two and a half bedroom. Those who lived in sunnyside knew what was meant when they said a flat was a two and half bedroom flat.
In the half bedroom I was forbidden to ever enter. It was also always locked. I wasn’t curious until I noticed that at night there are weird sounds and a weird light coming from there.
My man hardly spent time with me in the flat. He used to tell me that he travels for business and that’s why he is rarely there. But it didn’t bother me much because I was well taken care of. He truly took care of me and I had no need to be nagging him about his absence because I understood that he was working hard so i could live comfortably.
I hated that time of the month and I realised that since I met that guy I stopped having my periods completely and it made me super happy because I hated them. It didn’t bother me that they stopped until one night.
Well at first I panicked a lot thinking that maybe I’m pregnant and would take a pregnancy test monthly until I eventually got used to not having periods anymore.
During the dates of which I would get my periods I used to get extremely sick for the duration the periods used to last. I would get dizzy and have a terrible headache and my eye sight would completely fail me.
So I spent those days sleeping and feeling like I don’t belong to this world. I had no control over my body or emotions I was just a sick person waiting to take their final breath. That’s how bad it used to be.
I’ve been to different doctors and they found nothing wrong with me. One night during that periods I felt my body cold as it always got and I struggled to open my eyes but I kept on surprisingly saying a silent prayer. I don’t think I’ve ever prayed in my heart as much as I did on that day.
With the prayer I managed to open my eyes. I was in a dizzy mode but I was aware of my surroundings although I had no control over my body or the surroundings. I was too weak.
I opened my eyes and I was shocked to see my husband with two elderly women and one of his friends that I’ve met.
To my shock I thought my husband was out of the country but there he was n@ked with three other people. I was in a small room laying down on the floor facing up. I was also naked and they were surrounding me. One of the elderly woman was standing between my legs.
They had spread them open and it looked like she was talking to something inside me through the legs.
The more she spoke the more I felt an excruciating pain down there. They were speaking a language I did not understand and I was nothing short of scared and shocked at the same time.
I tried screaming but I couldn’t hear my own voice although I was screaming my lungs out. They didn’t even react to my screams to show that they couldn’t hear me at all.
I was in trouble and I knew this because I felt what felt like labour pain and the sudden relief you feel once the baby comes out of you.
I know the experience because I was a victim of teenage pregnancy. After the relief I saw my husband and his friend being handed over a big snake by the old woman who was holding out my legs.
They carried the snake to the corner of the room and started singing or chanting im not sure what exactly they were doing.
I then passed out. When I woke up the next day everything felt exactly the way they would every month. I used to wake up with sore legs as if I had been jogging or exercising the previous night. But now it made sense because my feet were forcibly held wide open. I was weak and vommited black things. This happened every other month and suddenly I think I had found the reason.
I am also guessing that all this was happening in the half room because the room was small and had the black curtain on the window.
The next day I woke up fine as always . I’d be sick for four days and wake up healthy and well on the fifth day and that’s when my husband would return back home on the sixth day.
From that point on I noticed that the day I before I get sick he always leaves and comes back when I would be fine. When came back he acted as if all was well but he had this look of discomfort like he knew that I now knew.
I didn’t want to confront him because I didn’t know how dangerous that would be for me. The following month I had a dream of the same elderly women telling him that I was no longer of use to them now that I know the secret. They told him to serve them another innocent blood of he would suffer the consequences.
The very following day he woke up and ended the relationship with me without any valid reason. We never got a divorce but I desperately need help with the divorce but I don’t know where to find him . I have now developed a huge mole on my private part that keeps growing and smells horrible. It forces me to bath every 6 hours to avoid the smell.
I also have nightmares and I am very sickly now.. I have moved back home and my parents don’t know the truth I just lied to them and told them that my roommate from Limpopo bewitched me because I was doing well academically more than them.
My parents are not educated so they have no idea what I was studying or how academics work.
They have taken me to different sangomas who confirms my lies which has now completely made my parents sold to my theory.
I need help locating the guy and also I need help removing whatever he has given me. His name is uchedima Mike, lived in sunnyside and drove a white BMW 325i and a black x5 back in 2013. I’ve attached his picture too.